By St. Josemaría Escrivá
God’s love is a jealous love. He is not satisfied if we come to meet him with conditions. He longs for us to give ourselves completely, without keeping dark corners in our heart where the joy and happiness of grace and the supernatural gifts cannot reach. Perhaps you are thinking, “If I say ‘yes’ to this exclusive Love, might I not lose my freedom?”
Aided and enlightened by our Lord, who is presiding over us in this period of prayer, I trust that this question will become clearer for you and me. Each one of us has at some time or other experienced that serving Christ our Lord involves suffering and hardships; to deny this would imply that we had not yet found God. A soul in love knows, however, that when such suffering comes, it is only a fleeting impression; the soul soon finds that the yoke is easy and the burden light, because Jesus is carrying it upon his shoulders as he embraced the wood of the Cross when our eternal happiness was at stake. 24 But there are people who do not understand. They rebel against the Creator, in a sad, petty, impotent rebellion, and they blindly repeat the futile complaint recorded in the Psalms, “let us break away from their bondage, rid ourselves of their toils.” 25 They shrink from the hardship of fulfilling their daily task with heroic silence and naturalness, without show or complaint. They have not realized that even when God’s will seems painful and its demands seem wounding, it coincides perfectly with our freedom, which is to be found only in God and in his plans.
Such people barricade themselves behind their freedom. “My freedom! My freedom!” they cry. They have their freedom, but they don’t use it. They look at it, they set it up, a clay idol for their petty minds to worship. Is this freedom? What use is this treasure to them, if there is no commitment guiding their whole lives? Such behavior goes against their very dignity and nobility as human beings. They are left aimless, with no clear path to guide their footsteps on this earth. You and I have met such people. They then let themselves be carried away by childish vanity, by selfish conceit, by sensuality.
Their freedom turns out to be barren, or produces fruits which, even humanly speaking, are ridiculous. A person who does not choose, with complete freedom, an upright code of conduct, sooner or later ends up being manipulated by others. He will lead a lazy, parasitic existence, at the mercy of what others decide. He will let himself be blown to and fro by any wind whatsoever, and it will always be others who make up his mind for him. “These are waterless clouds, carried hither and thither by the winds, autumn trees that bear no fruit, doubly dead and rootless,” 26 even though they may try to disguise their lack of character, courage, and honesty behind a smokescreen of constant chatter and excuses.
“No one is forcing me!” they obstinately repeat. No one? Everyone is coercing his make-believe freedom which will not run the risk of accepting responsibility for the consequences of his own free actions. Where there is no love of God, the individual and responsible use of personal freedom becomes impossible. There, despite appearances to the contrary, the individual is coerced at every turn. The indecisive and irresolute person is like plasticine at the mercy of circumstances. Anyone and anything can mold him according to its whim, and especially his passions and the worst tendencies of his own nature wounded by sin.
Remember the parable of the talents. The servant who received one talent could have put it to good use, as his fellow servants did. He would have set to work with his own abilities. He could have made sure that his talent bore fruit. Instead, what is on his mind? He is worried about losing his talent. Fair enough. But, then? He goes and buries it! 27 The talent he received bears no fruit.
Let us not forget this man’s sickly fear of putting to honest use his capacity for work, his mind, his will, his whole being. “I’ll bury it,” the poor fellow seems to be saying, “but my freedom is safe!” Not so. He has turned his freedom toward something very definite, toward the most miserable and arid barrenness. He has taken sides, because he had no alternative. He had to choose, but he has chosen badly.
It is utterly false to oppose freedom and self-surrender, because self-surrender is a consequence of freedom. Look, when a mother sacrifices herself for love of her children, she has made a choice, and the more she loves the greater will be her freedom. If her love is great, her freedom will bear much fruit. Her children’s good derives from her blessed freedom, which presupposes self-surrender, and from her blessed self-surrender, which is precisely freedom.
But, you might say, when we have attained our heart’s desire, our search will be over. Does freedom vanish then? I assure you that it will then be more active than ever, because love is not content with a routine fulfillment of duty. Love is incompatible with boredom or apathy. To love means to renew our dedication every day, with loving deeds of service.
I insist, and I would like to engrave this deep in your hearts, that freedom and self-surrender are not contradictory. They sustain one another. Freedom can be given up only for love; I cannot conceive any other reason for surrendering it. And I am not just playing with words or phrases. When people give themselves freely, at every moment of their self-surrender, freedom renews their love; to be renewed in that way is to be always young, generous, capable of high ideals and great sacrifices. I remember how pleased I was when I was told that the Portuguese term for young people is os nuovos (“the new ones”). That is just what they are. I tell you this because, although I have been around a good many years, when I pray at the foot of the altar “to God who gives joy to my youth,” 28 I feel young, and I know that I will never consider myself old. If I keep true to my God, Love will constantly vivify me. My youth will be renewed like that of the eagle. 29
It’s because we love freedom that we tie ourselves down. Only pride sees such bonds as a heavy chain. True humility, which is taught us by the One who is meek and humble of heart, shows that his yoke is easy and his burden light: 30 his yoke is freedom and love and unity; his yoke is the Life which he won for us on the Cross.
Throughout my years as a priest, whenever I have spoken, or rather shouted, about my love for personal freedom, I have noticed some people reacting with distrust, as if they suspected that my defense of freedom could endanger the faith. Such faint-hearted people can rest assured. The only freedom that can assail the faith is a misinterpreted freedom, an aimless freedom, one without objective principles, one that is lawless and irresponsible. In a word, license. Unfortunately, this is what some people are advocating, and their claim does indeed constitute a threat to the faith.
This is why it is inaccurate to speak of freedom of conscience, thereby implying that it may be morally right for someone to reject God. We have already seen that it is in our power to oppose God’s plans for salvation. It is in our power, but we should not do so. If someone adopted this attitude deliberately, he would be sinning, by breaking the first and most important of the commandments: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with thy whole heart.” 31
I defend with all my strength the freedom of consciences, 32 which means that no one can licitly prevent a man from worshiping God. The legitimate hunger for truth must be respected. Man has a grave obligation to seek God, to know him and worship him, but no one on earth is permitted to impose on his neighbor the practice of a faith he lacks; just as no one can claim the right to harm those who have received the faith from God.
Our Holy Mother the Church has always spoken out in favor of freedom and has always rejected fatalism, in both its ancient and its more modern versions. She has pointed out that each soul is master of its own destiny, for good or ill: “and those who have been true to the good will go to eternal life; those who have committed evil, to eternal fire.” 33 I have always been impressed by this awesome capacity which you and I have, which all of us have, a capacity which indeed reveals the
nobility of our state. “So true is it that sin is a voluntary evil, that in no way would it be sin if it did not have its origin in the will. This affirmation is so evident that the few wise men and the many fools who inhabit the earth are agreed upon it.” 34
Once again I raise my heart in thanksgiving to my God and Lord, because there was nothing to stop him from creating us impeccable, irresistibly drawn toward the good. Nevertheless, “he judged that his servants would be better if they served him freely.” 35 How great is the love, the mercy of our Father! Whenever I think of his divine extravagance for us his children, I wish I had a thousand tongues, a thousand hearts and more, with which to be constantly praising God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit. Just think: the Almighty, who through his Providence rules the whole universe, does not want the forced service of slaves; he prefers to have children who are free. Although we are born proni ad peccatum (“inclined to sin”), due to the fall of our first parents, he has placed in the soul of each and every one of us a spark of his infinite intelligence, an attraction toward the good, a yearning for everlasting peace. And he brings us to understand that we will attain truth, happiness, and freedom if we strive to make this seed of eternal life grow in our hearts.
But we can still say “no” to God, rejecting this source of new and permanent happiness. Anyone who does so stops being a son and becomes a slave. Each thing is that which it is fitted to be according to its nature; hence, when it goes in search of something alien to its nature, it is not acting according to its own manner of being, but under an alien impulse; and this is to act in a servile manner. Man is rational by nature. When he acts according to reason, he proceeds by his own movement, according to what he is: and this is proper to freedom. When he sins, he works against reason, and then he is allowing himself to be led by the impulse of another, he is subject to limitations imposed by another and so anyone who “commits sin is a slave to sin” (John 8: 34). 36
Allow me to insist on this point. It is quite evident, as we can see in ourselves and in others, that everybody is a slave in some form or other. Some stoop before riches; others worship power; some, the relative tranquility of skepticism; and there are those who discover in sensuality their golden calf. The same happens in noble things. We put effort into a job of work, into an undertaking, large or small, into scientific, artistic, literary, or spiritual activities. Wherever there is commitment and real passion, the person involved lives enslaved, joyfully devoting himself to fulfilling his task.
We will be slaves either way. Since we must serve anyway, for whether we like it or not this is our lot as men, then there is nothing better than recognizing that Love has made us slaves of God. From the moment we recognize this, we cease being slaves and become friends, sons. Then we see the difference: we find ourselves tackling the honest occupations of the world just as passionately and just as enthusiastically as others do, but with peace in the depth of our hearts. We are happy and calm, even in the midst of difficulties, for we are not putting our trust in passing things, but in what lasts forever. “We are not children of the slave but of the free woman.” 37
Where does our freedom come from? It comes from Christ our Lord. This is the freedom with which he has ransomed us. 38 That is why he teaches, “if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.” 39 We Christians do not have to ask anyone to tell us the true meaning of this gift, because the only freedom that can save man is Christian freedom.
I like to speak of the adventure of freedom, because that is how your lives and mine unfold. I insist that it is freely, as children and not as slaves, that we follow the path which our Lord has marked out for each one of us. We relish our freedom of action as a gift from God.
I opt for God because I want to, freely, without compulsion of any kind. And I undertake to serve, to convert my whole life into a means of serving others, out of love for my Lord Jesus. It is this freedom which moves me to cry out that nothing on earth can separate me from the love of Christ. 40
answerable to God for all the actions we freely perform. There is no room here for anonymity. Each one finds himself face to face with his Lord, and he can decide to live as God’s friend or as his enemy. This is the beginning of the path of the interior struggle which is a lifelong undertaking, because as long as we are on this earth we will never achieve complete freedom.
Moreover, our Christian faith tells us to ensure that everyone enjoys a climate of freedom, the first step for this being to remove any element of insidious compulsion in the manner of presenting the faith. “If we are brought to Christ by force, we believe without wanting to; this is violence, not freedom. We can enter the Church unwillingly. We can approach the altar unwillingly. We can even receive the Sacrament unwillingly. But we can only believe if we want to.” 42 It is clear also that, when one reaches the use of reason, personal freedom is required to enter the Church and to correspond to the continual calls which our Lord makes to us.
In the parable of the wedding feast, when the master of the house finds out that some guests have declined his invitation with poor excuses, he tells his servant, “Go out into the highways and hedgerows and compel—compelle intrare—people to come in.” 43 Surely this is coercion, an act of violence against the legitimate freedom of each individual conscience?
If we meditate on the Gospel and reflect on the teachings of Jesus, we will not mistake these commands for coercion. See how gently Christ invites: “If you have a mind to be perfect … If any man would come after me …” His compelle intrareimplies no violence, either physical or moral. Rather, it reflects the power of attraction of Christian example, which shows in its way of acting the power of God: “See how the Father attracts. He delights in teaching, and not in imposing necessity on men. That is how he attracts men toward himself.” 44
When we breathe this air of freedom, we see clearly that evil is an enslavement, not a liberation. “He who sins against God keeps the freedom of his will to the extent that he is free from coercion, but he has lost it in that he is no longer free from blame.” 45 Such a person may show that he has acted according to his preferences, but he does not speak with the voice of true freedom, because he has become the slave of his decision and he has decided for the worst, for the absence of God, where there is no freedom to be found.
I tell you once again: I accept no slavery other than that of God’s Love. This is because, as I have told you on other occasions, religion is the greatest rebellion of men who refuse to live like animals, who are dissatisfied and restless until they know their Creator and are on intimate terms with him. I want you to be rebels, free and unfettered, because I want you—it is Christ who wants us!—to be children of God. Slavery or divine sonship, this is the choice we face. Children of God or slaves to pride, to sensuality, to the fretful selfishness which seems to afflict so many souls.
Love of God marks out the way of truth, justice, and goodness. When we make up our minds to tell our Lord, “I put my freedom in your hands,” we find ourselves loosed from the many chains that were binding us to insignificant things, ridiculous cares, or petty ambitions. Then our freedom, which is a treasure beyond price, a wonderful pearl that it would be a tragedy to cast before swine, 46 will be used by us entirely to learn how to do good. 47
This is the glorious freedom of the children of God. Christians who let themselves be browbeaten, or become inhibited, or envious in the face of the licentious behavior of those who have not accepted the Word of God, show that they have a very poor idea of the faith. If we truly fulfill the law of Christ—that is, if we make the effort to do so, because we will not always fully succeed—we will find ourselves endowed with a wonderful gallantry of spirit that does not need to look elsewhere to discover the full meaning of human dignity.
Our faith is not in any way a burden or a limitation. What a poor idea of Christianity one would have if one thought that way! When we decide for God, we lose nothing, and we gain everything. He who at the expense of his soul “secures his own life, will lose it; it is the man who loses his life for my sake that will secure it.” 48
We have drawn the winning card, the first prize. If anything prevents us from seeing this clearly, let us look inside our own souls. We may find that our faith is weak, that we have little personal contact with God, that our life of prayer is impoverished. We must beg our Lord, through his Mother, who is our Mother, too, to increase his love in us, to grant us a taste of the sweetness of his presence. Only when we love do we attain the fullest freedom: the freedom of not wanting ever to abandon, for all eternity, the object of our love.
St. Josemaria Escriva was born in Spain in 1902 and was ordained a priest in 1926. In 1928, he received the divine inspiration to found Opus Dei, a Catholic organization of lay people and priests who try to grow close to God through their ordinary lives. St. Josemaria died in 1975 and was canonized by Pope John Paul II in 2002.
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